MONTH TWELVE

The twelfth month is a milestone for both you and your baby. With their first birthday just around the corner, your little one is growing, learning, and showing more of their unique personality. Here’s a guide to help you navigate and celebrate this exciting time.

Enjoy the Journey

The twelfth month is an exciting time filled with exploration, learning, and milestones. While it may come with its challenges—like navigating toddler tantrums or messy mealtimes—it’s also a time of immense joy and wonder. Cherish these moments, because before you know it, you’ll have a toddler ready to take on the world.

Here’s to you and your amazing 12-month-old!

Physical Development

At 12 months, many babies are working on their gross motor skills. Some may already be walking independently, while others are cruising along furniture or taking tentative steps. Every baby develops at their own pace, so don’t worry if your child isn’t walking yet.

Fine motor skills are also improving. You might notice your baby picking up small objects with their thumb and forefinger, turning pages in board books, or trying to stack blocks. These activities not only build coordination but also strengthen their muscles.

Tip: Encourage physical development with toys that promote movement, like push walkers, and provide plenty of safe spaces for exploration.

Cognitive and Language Skills

This month, your baby is becoming more curious about how the world works. They may start experimenting with cause and effect by dropping objects repeatedly to see your reaction (as exhausting as that might be!). Their memory and problem-solving skills are growing, too, so don’t be surprised if they figure out how to open a cabinet or reach for an out-of-sight toy.

Language development is taking off as well. Many babies will say their first words around this age, like “mama,” “dada,” or “ball.” Even if they aren’t saying words yet, they’re likely babbling with intent, mimicking sounds, and understanding simple commands like “come here” or “give me.”

Tip: Talk, sing, and read to your baby often. Encourage them to repeat sounds and words, and respond enthusiastically when they do.

Emotional and Social Growth

Your baby is becoming more social and expressive. They might wave goodbye, clap their hands, or point to show you something. You’ll also notice stronger attachments forming, especially to you and other familiar caregivers. This can sometimes lead to separation anxiety, which is completely normal at this stage.

They’re also learning about emotions and may mimic your facial expressions or react to your tone of voice. This is a great time to model empathy and kindness. 

Tip: Comfort your baby during moments of anxiety, and create routines to help them feel secure. Celebrate their social milestones, like waving or clapping, with plenty of praise.

Eating and Sleeping

By now, your baby is likely eating a variety of solid foods and drinking less formula or breast milk. They may even start trying family meals in small, manageable pieces. Keep offering a balanced diet, including fruits, vegetables, proteins, and whole grains.

Sleep patterns might still be shifting. Most 12-month-olds need about 11–14 hours of sleep in a 24-hour period, including one or two naps.

Tip: If you’re transitioning to cow’s milk (for those who are weaning), introduce it gradually and ensure your baby still gets essential nutrients from food. Stick to consistent bedtime routines to support healthy sleep habits.

Here are some credible sources that provide valuable insights into infant development, feeding practices, and parenting during the sixth month:

1.   American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)

HealthyChildren.org

Information: Covers milestones, feeding guidance, and safety tips for parents.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)

CDC Developmental Milestones

Information: Offers a detailed guide on physical, social, and cognitive milestones for six-month-old babies.

World Health Organization (WHO)

Website: WHO Infant Feeding Guidelines

Information: Recommendations for introducing complementary foods while continuing breastfeeding.

Mayo Clinic

Mayo Clinic Baby Milestones

Information: Practical advice for parenting and understanding your baby’s development.

Zero to Three

Zero to Three

Information: Research-backed resources for early childhood development and parenting strategies.

Things to Keep in Mind

  • Safety first: As your baby becomes more mobile, babyproofing is crucial. Keep dangerous objects out of reach and secure furniture to prevent tipping.

  • Doctor’s visit: A 12-month check-up is a great time to discuss your baby’s growth, vaccinations, and developmental milestones. Don’t hesitate to bring up any concerns.

  • Celebrate their first year: As you prepare for your baby’s first birthday, take a moment to reflect on how much they’ve grown and how far you’ve come as a parent.